PICK a Partner: Premarital Interpersonal Choices and Knowledge
(How to Avoid Marrying a Jerk)
by John Van Epp, PhD. (1997-2008)
This set of 2 DVDs provides five 50-minute presentations of a plan for pacing a relationship and for exploring the key areas that foreshadow what a potential partner will be like in marriage. Participants can write in the accompanying workbook. Magnetic "Relationship Attachment Model" boards illustrate the five aspects of a relationship that need to be built in sequence: knowing, trusting, relying, committing, and sexual touching. The website offers training information, workbooks, and resources for helping singles and singles again to build healthy relationships by using both their heads and their hearts.